I sounded I'm breaking free~ Indeed, I am. But the thing is people around me is having a rough time. Even I, myself just went through it. As you can see in my previous posts, I'm fucking emo..!! Things don't always goes our way and I'm pretty sure everyone knew about it. Only till lately, I thought of something that can actually changed the way I see and think about things in life. "There is always two sides in everything"
Why? Because, there is always good and bad, happy and sad, advantage and disadvantage, sweet and bitchy, pros and cons, black and white etc...
++so when you're having conflicts with people; ++
Imagine yourself in a room~ True that you wanna be the centre of attention! You want everyone to like you..Okay, it might seems that everyone like you but how sure are you that all these people is actually not wearing a mask and being themselves? How sure are you that these people will not bitch about you behind your back? Conclusion is : Don't expect everyone to like us. There will be some that treasure us and there will be some that will turn their back on us. Basically, there is two sides of it isn't it?
++so when you're losing or letting go the special someone++
Take it as a message from God that this person is not the right person for us. Take time to heal the broken heart. I know its not easy and its hard. It's easy to say but harder to do. I bet everyone of us been through the phase where we're crying our hearts out, time passing really slow, see things in black and white and its like almost the end of the world. If we can think of the dark side, why not think of the bright side? It is the time when you gonna appreciate people around you that will always be there for you, loving and caring you for you and also a time to love you for you.
++so when you're going through a hard time or doubting yourself; ++
- Be the leaf on the tree if you can't be the tree
- Be the star in the sky if you can't be the moon
- Be the soil on the ground if you can't be the flower
- Be yourself and believe that TOMORROW will be better than YESTERDAY!!!
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